First-year Tampa Bay Downs Chaplain Eli Hernandez grew up in
a dangerous, gang-riddled area of Los Angeles, but his parents’ emphasis on
leading a Christian life – his father was a church elder and his mother was a church
secretary – kept him from yielding to the streets. At 9, he surrendered his
life to serving Jesus Christ, and his passion for helping others continued to
grow. Walking to school as a teenager, he saw dozens of homeless people
sleeping under a nearby bridge. Concerned for their plight, he began dropping
off sandwiches he prepared at home each morning. “There were a lot of
distractions where I grew up, and as a teenager I kind of went sour,” he
recalls. “But I always came back to my roots, and that was God.” Married for 25
years to Martha, Hernandez was ordained in 2000 by the Fruit of the Spirit
Church. He was a minister at the New Living Way Church in Downey, Calif., and a
senior claims adjuster for an insurance agency when he learned of the opportunity
to join the Tampa Bay Downs Division of the Race Track Chaplaincy of America.
Pastor Eli talks about his family, the decision to move cross-country and the
community he serves at Tampa Bay Downs in this installment of the track’s
“Racing In The Sunshine” blog.
GROWING UP, MY BROTHER MANUEL TOOK ME TO SANTA ANITA
and Hollywood Park, but all I saw was the glamorous part of the sport – the
horses running, the jockeys riding and everyone jumping up and down when their
horse won. I never thought about the backside of it. In fact, I never even knew
there was a backside. Now that I am experiencing it firsthand, it’s amazing to
me what goes on with the grooms and the hot walkers and the other employees.
They are a big part of what makes the front so good.
MOVING CROSS-COUNTRY TO FLORIDA WAS A TREMENDOUS CHANGE
for Martha and myself. Our daughter Jessica, her two children and our son
Matthew, who is 18 and a high school senior, are still in Los Angeles, so the
holidays were the toughest time. But Martha and myself and our kids believe God
sent us here for a purpose. God has provided us the peace and comfort, and
everyone here has accepted us with open arms, which has made it much easier for
us. We feel we are developing a family here at the racetrack.
WE ALL AGREED IT WAS THE RIGHT MOVE FOR MATTHEW TO STAY
at his school, but that was obviously one of the biggest decisions we have ever
had to make as a family. We had never been apart from him. He’s a basketball
player, and I went to all of his practices and his games and his functions. He
is living now with his sister and her family. Some people said we were taking a
step of faith, but it was definitely a leap of faith. But we knew in our hearts
it was the right thing and we are getting through it.
MARTHA’S PASSION IS GREATER THAN MINE. She cares
about people and loves people, and together we have that same goal to serve
them, to help them and to reach out to those in need. If that means
encouragement or if it means just sitting down and listening, we are blessed to
do it. Martha is a great listener. If people ask us for advice we’ll give it,
but sometimes they just want a listening ear.
THE GAMBLING ASPECT OF HORSE RACING DOESN’T BOTHER ME AT
ALL. I see it as another opportunity for me to counsel someone if they are
in need. Individuals are individuals, and we are all looking for a way to get
ahead in life. I refuse to judge anybody or put anybody down. We are not here
for that. We are here to lift up and encourage. I would just hope that if they
make a big win, they give some to the chaplaincy. When my brother Manuel took
me, I always bet on the gray horse. I don’t do any more betting, but I always
cheer for the grays because they are so beautiful.
HERE AT THE TRACK, MY MISSION IS TO SERVE in any way I
can. That might mean providing clothing or tracking down telephone numbers or
just being an encouragement. The big thing is just making myself available to
whatever someone’s needs are. We have non-denominational church services every
Monday at 6 p.m., English classes on Mondays and Tuesdays at 2 p.m., and Bible
study on Thursday at 2 p.m. I am also planning to start an Alcoholic’s
Anonymous class through the Chaplain’s office if there are people willing to be
committed to it.
SUBSTANCE ABUSE IS AN ISSUE WE DEAL WITH in all
segments of society, not just on the racetrack. But the nature of the job, in
which many employees have a lot of free time after training hours, can make
things worse. I am certified and licensed as a drug and alcohol counselor, but
I don’t have all the answers. But I’m looking forward to helping those people
who want help and are willing to take that step to get it.
I SEE A BIG OPPORTUNITY HERE. I’ve spoken to grooms
and hot walkers, jockeys, trainers and owners, and there is so much opportunity
here for me to serve people. There are so many here on the track who have needs
and are hurting or seeking guidance, and this environment brings everybody
together regardless of what state or country or background they are from.
Striving to work together in unity and harmony – what an opportunity that is
for all of us. We can wake up every morning, help and encourage each other and
look up at the end of the day and say “Thank you, God, for another day you have
given us to work together as a team.”
IN THE SHORT TIME MARTHA AND I HAVE BEEN HERE, I
believe we have proven to people they can trust us. Already, we’ve had so many
open up their hearts, and we’ve been able to pray with them and point them in
the right direction when they need help. We want people to know we are here for
them and we care about them. My door is always open and my phone is always on.
We feel comfortable here and are confident we’re in the right place.
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